My Chest Hurts!

I have spoken with people about the possibility of finding my birth parents, and they mentioned how great it would be to at least have my “family” health history.  I just laughed,  I don’t think I want to know the health history.  What if all the men in the “family” died early of some sort of heart disease?  Do I really want to know that stuff?  I don’t think I do.  That has been one of the best parts of being adopted, is not know and not thinking about it.  Not knowing has become a big part of me just living my life for today.

If you have any thoughts or any adoption stories, please email me